Dating Applications
Chat, calling and AI agent solutions for dating applications
113,000+
apps powered by CometChat
126M+
users connected worldwide
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countries connected through CometChat
The CometChat Product Suite
CometChat for dating applications
Real-time messaging, meaningful matches, secure interactions
Chat and Messaging
Secure dating app chat and messaging
Real time chat for dating applications, equipped with 1:1 conversations, group chats, photo/video sharing, voice messages, typing indicators, and threaded replies for meaningful connections.
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User profiles: Let users express themselves with emojis, stickers, and creative avatars.
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Interactive chat: Leverage interactive message formats to show polls, quizzes, and chat based games to create an engaging experience.
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AI user copilot: Enable conversation starters, summaries and smart replies to keep your users proactively engaged.
Voice and Video Calling
Real time voice & video calling for dating apps
Enable virtual dates and profile verification with in-app voice and video calling for secure, authentic connections before meeting in person.
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Polling, chat, and in-call reactions available for group and individual calls. Enabling interactive user participation throughout every call.
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Automatically optimize video quality and layout in real time based on network conditions and active speakers for an uninterrupted experience. Built to support multiple networks and heavy bandwidth.
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Built-in recording with playback controls and automatic upload handling. Record your conversations.
AI Agents & Copilots
Dating application-ready AI agents and copilots
Build AI agents that improve matching, enhance safety, and help users create meaningful connections.
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Build icebreaker and conversation agents that suggest personalized opening lines and keep conversations engaging based on shared interests.
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Deploy safety and moderation agents that detect harassment, scams, and platform circumvention in real-time with automatic escalation to moderators.
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Create matchmaking assistant agents that help users refine preferences, explain compatibility scores, and provide personalized dating advice.
Platform Features
Beyond traditional capabilities
Advanced moderation features, notifications, webhooks, and analytics to keep dating app conversations safe, interactive, and compliant.
Moderation and Guardrails
Context-aware moderation detects harassment, inappropriate advances, and manipulation attempts by analyzing complete conversation history.
AI agent guardrails prevent jailbreaks, block inappropriate responses, and stop agents from sharing personal contact information.
Multimedia and multilingual protection automatically flags explicit visuals and harmful content across all languages.
Custom moderation rules let you set platform-specific policies with automatic escalation for human review.
Moderation and Guardrails
Keep your dating platform safe with AI-powered moderation for user conversations and built-in guardrails for AI agents.
Context-aware moderation detects harassment, inappropriate advances, and manipulation attempts by analyzing complete conversation history.
AI agent guardrails prevent jailbreaks, block inappropriate responses, and stop agents from sharing personal contact information.
Multimedia and multilingual protection automatically flags explicit visuals and harmful content across all languages.
Custom moderation rules let you set platform-specific policies with automatic escalation for human review.
Notification Engine
Utilize online presence notifications to immediately link users who are online and prepared to engage in conversation.
Trigger notifications from simple events such as message sent and edited, or set advanced triggers such as message read or message delivered.
Get notified for every group or individual action, such as notify all on groups and more
Notification Engine
Capture and send chat engagement events to analyze and personalize user experience.
Utilize online presence notifications to immediately link users who are online and prepared to engage in conversation.
Trigger notifications from simple events such as message sent and edited, or set advanced triggers such as message read or message delivered.
Get notified for every group or individual action, such as notify all on groups and more
Insights and Analytics
Track matching effectiveness by monitoring message response rates, conversation drop-offs, and engagement patterns to refine your algorithm and improve compatibility.
Monitor user retention including active users, conversation frequency, and inactive trends to identify at-risk users and boost re-engagement.
Measure AI agent impact by tracking icebreaker effectiveness, recommendation accuracy, and how AI-assisted conversations improve match success rates.
Insights and Analytics
Track user engagement, optimize matching, and reduce churn with analytics that reveal how users connect and what drives meaningful relationships.
Track matching effectiveness by monitoring message response rates, conversation drop-offs, and engagement patterns to refine your algorithm and improve compatibility.
Monitor user retention including active users, conversation frequency, and inactive trends to identify at-risk users and boost re-engagement.
Measure AI agent impact by tracking icebreaker effectiveness, recommendation accuracy, and how AI-assisted conversations improve match success rates.
Global Compliance and Regulations
GDPR
CSAM
COPPA
SOC2
DSA
HIPAA
Global Compliance and Regulations
Stay aligned with global safety and privacy regulations out of the box. Compliant with:
GDPR
CSAM
COPPA
SOC2
DSA
HIPAA
Webhooks
Sync dating events with your systems by triggering webhooks for matches, messages, and calls to track engagement and monitor activity.
Automate workflows including match notifications, conversation prompts, and safety alerts through secure webhook endpoints.
Monitor AI agent interactions by capturing webhook events when agents facilitate connections, detect misconduct, or escalate safety concerns.
Webhooks
Integrate dating app webhooks to trigger automated workflows and sync user activities in real-time.
Sync dating events with your systems by triggering webhooks for matches, messages, and calls to track engagement and monitor activity.
Automate workflows including match notifications, conversation prompts, and safety alerts through secure webhook endpoints.
Monitor AI agent interactions by capturing webhook events when agents facilitate connections, detect misconduct, or escalate safety concerns.
Integrating CometChat
Real-time conversations that grows with you
Start with any integration method and scale to others as your needs evolve
Widget Builder
A no-code builder for any platform, built for high-impact use cases that need solutions fast and flexible.
UI Kit Builder
A low-code builder that is fully customizable, easy to integrate, and scales with your product.
UI Kits
Comprehensive UI Kits with all the features you need, designed to grow with your app.
SDKs
Open source SDKs and APIs for all popular frameworks to build bespoke chat experiences.
Featured customer stories
Revolutionizing matchmaking: Shaadi.com's leap with CometChat
Shaadi.com is a leading matchmaking service that helps people find life partners. CometChat improved their messaging tools to make connecting easier and ensured the platform stays reliable as it grows.
How Howdy connects hearts With seamless chat features
Howdy is a dating app designed to connect people in rural Australia and the agricultural sector. CometChat enabled a rapid market launch by providing ready-to-use chat features that eliminated the need for custom development.
How Blyynd fuels intimacy and respectful connections with CometChat
Blyynd is a dating platform focused on fostering intimacy and respectful user connections. CometChat replaced their limited in-house system with a cost-effective, feature-rich solution, allowing the team to focus on their core mission.
Creating an inclusive online dating experience: how Flutrr uses CometChat
Flutrr is an inclusive dating app designed to offer a culturally relevant and safe experience for the Indian market. 1 CometChat’s robust features enabled them to quickly build a unique environment that addresses existing gaps in the regional dating scene.Revolutionizing matchmaking: Shaadi.com's leap with CometChat
Shaadi.com is a leading matchmaking service that helps people find life partners. CometChat improved their messaging tools to make connecting easier and ensured the platform stays reliable as it grows.How Howdy connects hearts With seamless chat features
Howdy is a dating app designed to connect people in rural Australia and the agricultural sector. CometChat enabled a rapid market launch by providing ready-to-use chat features that eliminated the need for custom development.
Start building your dating app today
Build faster, scale securely, and create meaningful connections with chat, video, and AI safety tools designed for trusted dating experiences.